Some foster carer myths debunked

There has to be diversity among the foster care community to meet the needs of children and young people. As Fosterline Scotland worker I answer many questions from prospective foster carers about whether they can apply to foster or not. What's important to note is that applications are welcomed from people from all sorts of backgrounds, regardless of marital status, race, gender or sexuality. Similarly, you can foster whether you are single, married, co-habiting or divorced, and this applies to both males and females. 

Diversity is essential

It is hugely important that there is a wide range of foster carers available with different skills, knowledge and life experiences. One myth that still exists today - although is certainly disappearing I think - is that LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender) individuals or couples cannot foster. There were changes to the law in 2006 allowing both foster and adoptive carers in an LGBT couple to appear as legal guardians on adoption and fostering paperwork. This change resulted in an increase of LGBT foster carers. All fostering agencies are committed to equal treatment of all prospective foster carers and should positively welcome applications. Your sexual orientation is not important when determining your ability to provide a safe and nurturing home to a fostered child.

More myths

Every child in need of foster care is different, with their own life story and experiences - it’s what you can bring to the role of fostering that will help you to help the children who live with you. Another common misconception is that your religion will prevent you from fostering. Children should be placed with foster families that can meet their needs, including religious needs. However, this doesn't mean you need to practice the same religion as the child and vice versa. Prospective applicants will need to consider, however, how they would feel if a child was placed with them that did not share their religion and how they would feel about discussing issues such as alternative religious belief or sexuality, ensuring that they abide by the fostering service’s policies.  

If you are interested in becoming a foster carer or would like further information about the requirements start fostering please visit our Who can foster webpage.